Cool, calm aloof. Nearly an ice queen who isn’t bothered by much and isn’t prepared to go into too much detail about their needs. Someone who you’ve never met before has forced their way into your life and you’re forced to find some common ground. Half the time you’re entertaining the children while the adults converse so quite often conversation is avoided. You don’t know what’s already been said so does it seem rude to make them repeat it? Or does it make you look ignorant and not caring? Naturally, you want to find out about their past but everyone else seems to know this so you feel a bit disinclined. The last thing you want to do is to make her feel that you’re vetting her, but it’s difficult to find out about topics that interest you both. Travel and discussion of previous activities similar to what you’re currently doing are usually safe topics.
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